Career or family – choice of modern women
Working women
In times of rapid emancipation of women an important item in the list of newly formed problem is the choice between career and family. We strive to realize themselves everywhere at once, but whether it will be full in both directions?
Statistics show that 90% of girls today are aimed at a successful career, and only then – a full family. Most of them are hoping to achieve a thirty peaks in the profession, and only thirty-five to afford to go to the decree .
But is it practical?
“Dreaming is not bad – bad dream is not”
If you are a victim of modern thought, have decided initially to build a career, you’ll notice that all may not end up on your “great” plan.
First of all , and you believe that the thirty you will have a rewarding career? Our world is not so easy to take its place “under the sun.” Because the planned withdrawal of the decree can be pretty delayed until the state of “old maid”. The outcome of such a choice you know yourself: adoption or childlessness.
Secondly , as you believe that your days are downloaded career find a place to Favorites? For future children’s father? For a complete family? And so it is easy to find a decent free man of thirty in our country?
Thirdly , and you wonder what to do if suddenly appears on the horizon, “Your Love”? Opt for a career ? Or change his principles?
“Take care of your wife, do not let go” Fonvizin D.
If you are determined to a more conservative mood in the first place and want to realize myself as a wife and mother, do not think that such a “specialization” tired, but the road back has not be?
Firstly , there is never enough time for yourself! When you go into the routine of family life, Budyonny, then piled a lot of problems and responsibilities that interfere with your desire to achieve more. Maybe fifty years of course, when children grow up, but my husband will be in a passive waiting for retirement, and you vykroete place for your career! But not too late right?
Second , husbands have a habit of “stranger”! Tautology, but it is quite plausible. A man who is accustomed to his faithful wife and family all day engaged in a home, hardly able to refuse it.
Third , as knowledge is abating. Or do you naively think that you will always remember all the models of economic-mathematical modeling and the credit system?
“All at once”
after the above two and completely “broken” disadvantages of options combining career and family is left alone. All at once! The severity of this choice is that you can not open up any one or the other. Sprayed, you know, are not the best solution.
Then the question is raised: “Is not it possible to realize himself as a happy woman, and as a successful careerist?”
The answer is simple: “In this life anything is possible … if there is someone who will support you!”
It is very important that the beloved husband to help you get out of the work routine and to give time to decree that the beloved husband understand your desire to work and helped save the home, so beloved husband with you to build a family and support when there are failures in career development.
I not trying to impose on you, that all depends on the man. Not at all. Just loving person always understands and will always support, then you will be full strength to win any top!
