How to become an ideal wife
wife is like a collector’s item of aged wine, try everything that dream, but it is available to units. The quality of the precious drink (read: women) affected by: the pedigree of its producers and of the grape (education), storage and treatment (nature) and, of course, taste. So what’s the taste of a perfect wife? Inferences curious to begin with, we decided to turn to the great Russian language dictionary compiled by Vladimir Dal esteemed, – a definition of the word “wife”. It turned out that it is “generally a woman, a married woman,” and “wife, woman.” Then followed a set of quotes, aphorisms and proverbs, which used a cherished word. Most of them, to say the least, humiliating or offensive to women. For example: “Xanthippe will bring my husband crazy,” or “good wife, but envious,” “happy to play, but unhappy wife,” “Do not believe the horse in the field, and his wife in the house.” One gets the impression that our man just can not imagine that the wife is good, good, faithful, honest, and generally wonderful. Since it can and should be happy, it is – a friend, lover and man with a capital letter. Of course, there is an option that such nonsense compose only low-quality imitations of gentlemen. We are sorry for “our French”, but these men differently and not be called. He sits himself in front of the TV so handsome, with a glass of cloudy beer and hanging out of his belly eating, groomed and disillusioned with life, and says: “Woman with a cart, the mare is easier.” His only regret – so much here to compare women with a noble beverage, which taste over the years it only gets better … but for a loved one and want the ideal man to try and become the perfect wife. And this, indeed, how? the ideal to the ideal woman in the bargain you get is not sweet or bitter truth lies. A sweet, as a quality dark chocolate, life! It goes about looks but about what qualities the ideal wife has, and what actions it is characterized. 1. Fidelity One would think that loyalty – one of the essential foundations of relationships, and we refer it to the perfect woman. Open our eyes to the truth: many people change as they wish, or succumbing to the persuasion of someone else. Can be found at the betrayal of a million reasons, especially if you’re in a bad mood and angry at its second half. But loyalty to one reason – love. We will not philosophize, to go into statistics. Just give the bare fact is that loyalty to an ideal characteristic of a woman. 2. Confidence Another golden rule for every one of us. Relationships are held on trust. When a man is confident that his home does not expect a meticulous interrogation of where he was, with whom, and why so long, he tends to his wife, who truly is the keeper of the hearth. RAP provides the atmosphere in the house, where you can relax and forget about all the problems. 3. Better Sex What can conceal before the man decided to make you an offer he had weighed a hundred times and realized that you – that the only one with whom he is close to the end of his days. Not justified the hopes of his constant failures in sexual pastimes, could destroy the foundations that hold the marriage. In other words, encourage her husband to change. Is this an act worthy of the ideal wife? 4. The independence of this applies to you, and to him. Common interests does not mean the absence of their own. It is not just a hobby, but also to, life orientations. Each of us would like to have a number of people interesting, versatile, who have a personality, not a shadow. 5. Ability to listen, hear and remain silent in time examining this aspect, we decided to ask for a comment to a psychologist Pyrme principles, author of “Love or dependence. The school of love. ” That’s what we told the pro: “Every man consciously or unconsciously, there is an ideal companion. At the time he idealizes love his woman, that is, it equates to an ideal. And when love ends, then the man left before the fact: there is his ideal in his heart and is real woman of flesh and blood, which can not match the ideal. There are certain recommendations in building relationships that help women meet the image of the ideal woman, with woman will feel comfortable. Often, we still at an early age are taught what you need to meet the ideal man. Then, already in conscious age we begin to fry, float, cook, take care of loved ones, take care of him. Hiding his identity and trying to become such a man wants to see. In the beginning it like men, and then a woman becomes uninteresting. Relationship ends, the man continues to search for your ideal. Psychological maturity men lies in the fact that he is aware of: to build a relationship with a real woman. Realize that he has to! There are actions and acts of women who did not allow a man to grow up. For example, if it takes a serious decision, it is more invested in relationships. In this case, psychological knowledge is very important: we must not underestimate ourselves, not to manipulate, not blackmail, but to know the psychology of men. Consider the principle of male psychology as an example. He comes home from work in a bad mood. She starts to feel uncomfortable, in fact, she feels guilty. A woman tries to improve mood, say, arranging a candlelit dinner. Thus, it simply does not understand a man, that’s his problem it has nothing to do. On the contrary, it thus pushing him to the realization that it is – the reason for his bad mood, she allows her husband to pass on the blame themselves. A further trouble growing like a snowball. The mood begins to spoil a woman, because she dyed all day, preparing for his arrival, and because of his failures, he could not assess all the effort. It is again our mistake. Need to understand one thing: to overcome stress, a woman is important to talk, but man – stay in himself, to leave without saying goodbye. He has to survive a nuisance. n after that you will not break his silence (for example, speaking at this time on the phone, walk with the dog, taking a bath), you have a real opportunity to help my husband to listen to him. pdealnaya wife does not interfere with his wife to be in a psychological process. She is aware that the psychology of men and women are very diverse. In my view, the ideal wife, 24-hour recall on the differences and respect them: I am – a woman, but he – the man. It permits a man to be a man. ” Men are obviously interested in the question: where to get such a perfect wife? The answer: look for a long time you do not have to. pdealnaya wife – not a rare creature that lives in nature reserves in the Red Book. This is a real madam, which is now, perhaps, you hurt his elbow in the bathroom, and then stepped on his foot in the bedroom or even worse – slightly scratched bumper of your car. Men, it is next to you! This is your fiancee. And its ideality only need to see. Look carefully, because you have luck!
