How to improve the relationship between parents and children?
To family relationships have been built on love and respect necessary to make serious efforts. After marriage – is to create a social unit, but not quite a full family. Family is really “real” with the advent of her child. Before the advent of many parents with a child gets a very complex issue – education.
How does a child need to bring up to the time of his growing relationship is not at an impasse?
It is obvious that the child should grow up in an atmosphere of love and caring, affection and attention. Then he and his childhood is a kind, sensitive. He will be able to love. The child should feel security in the family. Therefore, in no case can quarrel (especially in a raised voice) in the presence of a child.
To a child growing up kind and considerate to the elders, the younger and weaker, it is necessary from early childhood to vaccinate him the skills to be humane and responsible for their actions, but the child can not demand the impossible. After all, to teach a child to help a senior by the methods that will not cause the baby of a negative. For example, give way to transport a small child absolutely not difficult, and for the praise – even pleasant. At the same time the child appears and becomes stronger in the mind of the feeling that he should help, it is encouraged and that is normal.
A child needs attention. Therefore, when planning a child, the family should be well-considered approach to the problem of free time. The child, knowing the world, asks many questions, the answers to which he really wants to know. Therefore, wishing to raise friendly and interested in people, you have to patiently help him find the answers to his questions. After all the negative creates negative. And if a child is a child realizes that he is not interested in his closest people that he was annoying and should be silent, in the age of accountability of the conflict “between fathers and sons” in the family can not be avoided.
It is unacceptable to resort to physical coercion and violence in child rearing. Fear is not from someone has done a decent and loving parents of the person. Growing up, baby all forgive but never forget that he was beaten or forced to do something by threatening severe punishment. In adolescence, children who are physically punished are beginning to despise this form of education, in some cases, parents are trying to respond in kind. nx psyche is suffering, that does not improve the relationship between parents and children. Often, they start to play the “bad guys”, which causes problems with learning, the emergence of bad habits, and cruelty.
The correct way to develop relationships – this constant communication, minimizing the number of orders, threats, moralistic. You might want to visit the shop for little fashionistas to find addiction baby.
In my opinion, it is important to listen to the child, and more importantly, to hear him. If we look for solution to the problem together, the child will know that he is a complete and full member of the family, which are valued and respected, which should not bring their action or inaction. To respect and love for the child will respond in kind. It is important to trust your child, then he will trust his parents. It will be more willing to speak the concerns of his subjects, be frank and honest.
